Parenting in the Digital Era

The Digital Dilemma: Navigating the Online World with Children

In today’s digital age, children are growing up with access to technology that was once unimaginable. They learn to navigate apps and social media platforms before they can fully understand the nuances of face-to-face communication. While this digital fluency is impressive, it comes with its own set of challenges. Many children may be adept at using technology but lack the maturity and awareness needed to recognize potential dangers online.

The internet is a vast space filled with both educational content and harmful material. In countries like Nepal, where adult digital literacy is relatively low, children often find themselves navigating this complex landscape alone. This creates a significant gap between their technological skills and their ability to protect themselves from online threats.

According to recent data, more than 300 million children worldwide fall victim to sexual exploitation and abuse each year. In Nepal, cyber abuse cases among children have surged nearly fourfold in just three years, rising from 176 to 706. These alarming statistics highlight the urgent need for parents to take an active role in safeguarding their children from online harassment.

A study by ChildSafeNet involving 900 parents revealed that 70% were unaware of the causes of child abuse. Many parents assume their children are safe at home and readily provide them with devices such as smartphones. However, threats can come from within. A child who appears to be studying at home may actually be experiencing intimate partner violence. Additionally, some parents allow their children to use their social media accounts, which exposes young users to content that may not be appropriate for their age.

Another concerning trend is “sharenting,” where parents share aspects of their children’s lives on social media without their consent. While this may stem from good intentions, it creates a digital footprint for children before they even understand what it means. This practice not only violates children’s rights but also leaves them vulnerable to future risks.

In many societies, parents use fear as a disciplinary tool, leading to attempts to control their children’s behavior. As a result, young people may create fake profiles or maintain multiple accounts to bypass parental restrictions. This highlights the need for a more open and supportive approach to digital parenting.

Recognizing the challenges parents face, several countries have introduced legal measures to protect children online. For example, Australia recently passed a law prohibiting anyone under 16 from having social media accounts. In the United States, Florida has implemented a law requiring platforms to verify users are over 14, with additional requirements for those aged 14-15. However, these laws are not foolproof, as individuals can easily manipulate their age on platforms. Submitting an identity card may help, but it also raises concerns about privacy and anonymity.

Ultimately, the key to addressing these issues lies in improving parents’ digital literacy and adopting effective strategies to guide their children in the digital world. Just as children are taught about physical safety, they should also be educated about online risks. Parents and teachers must foster open communication and create an environment where children feel comfortable seeking help.

Digital literacy and modern parenting must become central to state policies. Programs like the ‘Parenting Education National Package’ in Nepal need to be updated to include digital safety and guidance. It is crucial for parents to recognize that the negative impacts of social media are not solely due to children’s actions but often stem from a lack of support and oversight.

By prioritizing digital education and fostering a supportive environment, parents can better equip their children to navigate the complexities of the online world safely and responsibly.